I Doubt That- Q9

How do I influence someone to come to Christ if they have lived a certain way for years?

Thank you for your question! It’s so awesome to know that this is something that is on your heart for your friends and loved ones. The reality is, that we can’t change hearts, only God can. BUT, it is our job as followers of Christ to live in a way that reflects who He is and His character in our lives. The most powerful witness to others isn’t an argument or debate. It’s a consistent life that shows God’s grace, peace, and kindness over time. It helps to remember that Jesus didn’t come for the already-convinced. He came for the lost, the skeptical, the stuck, and the broken. And He met people where they were—not with pressure, but with compassion. That same spirit lives in you when you simply walk with someone, listen to their story, and love them like Christ would. Sometimes the most Christlike thing you can do is just to be there—steady, patient, forgiving, joyful. That kind of life speaks volumes. And when the time is right, God will use your words, your actions, and your heart to open a door. So don’t lose hope. Keep praying. Keep loving. Keep showing up. You’re not alone in this—God is already at work in ways you might not even see yet.
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